5 signs that you are just wasting your time with him
Each of us wants to have our true love by our side.
Although it sounds like something that exists only in fairy tales, true love does exist, but it is hard to find in today's world. Namely, today everyone is too busy to have time to settle down and find a worthy partner. Men are especially "affected" by this, not because they are busier than women, but because they either pretend not to care or really don't care about finding committed love.
Although a love-filled relationship is what everyone wants, somehow the one-night stands seem more practical. Even if it turns into seeing each other more often, after that one night, the question is: how seriously will a man take it? If you don't want to just waste time with him, pay attention to our list because in it we reveal the signs that he is not the one.
HE IS NOT THINKING ABOUT REALLY COMMITTING TO YOU IN THE NEAR FUTURE
So you've met, you like each other, and maybe you've gone out a couple of times. You spend a lot of time corresponding with him and you really start to feel like you have a connection. However, every time you want to sit down with him and ask him bluntly "what are we?", referring to whether or not he wants you to be a couple, you hesitate because you're afraid of the answer. The reason for this is that you know he doesn't want to commit to you.
YOUR CONVERSATIONS ARE ONLY ABOUT HIS INTERESTS
Have you noticed that he doesn't seem to be interested in your life? After just a few meetings, you literally know everything about him - where he grew up, what is his profession, what sport does he play and why did he break up with his ex-girlfriend? But how much does he know about you? Even if you managed to say something about yourself, he didn't seem to pay attention to it. If he is not interested in things related to you, the fact is that he is not really interested in you.
YOU HAVE NO OPPORTUNITY TO BE WHAT YOU ARE IN FRONT OF HIM
No matter how handsome and funny he is, do you feel like you always have to pretend to be something you're not in front of him? It's just that there are guys who make us feel like we're not good enough for them. Although each of us wants to present ourselves in the best light, if you have to pretend in front of him that you like things you normally can't stand and conform to his affinities, that's a very bad sign.
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HE IS IMMATURE
Do you really want to waste your time on someone you know very well is immature? If he still likes to play video games or collect action figures from movies, it doesn't necessarily mean he's immature. Maybe his interests are childish, but if it makes him happy, it's acceptable. However, if he can't take care of himself, doesn't know how to process his emotions and talk to you like a grown man, or even embarrasses you in public, there's no reason for you to stick around.
HE HAS NO PLANS FOR THE FUTURE
Is there anything worse than people who have no ambitions, and no plans for their future? Would you really allow yourself to waste your life on someone who does not know how to motivate you and be your support? While you shouldn't give up on him if he hasn't accomplished anything in his life yet, if he doesn't plan to, do yourself a favor and end it.
Post by: Rinna James
