Dos And Don'ts In A New Relationship
The beginning of any new relationship is always filled with hope.
Things that are yet to happen fill your head and make all the promises real. Those long looks, gentle touches, whispering sweet words on the pillow, and endless butterflies flying in your stomach every time you see him, make life seem fantastic. Is there anything as good as the feelings you get from a new relationship?
However, for many, this experience can be very stressful. New relationships can easily be a source of panic and anxiety. Since most people need a little help getting into a new relationship, we've put together a list of things that can make or break your relationship.
Things to do in a new relationship:
Connect with your loved one – Love relationships are not just based on looks and feelings. You need to get to know your loved one, find out who they really are, understand their fears, and connect with them.
Be spontaneous – Allow yourself to experience new things. While routine can make you feel comfortable, to make sure your relationship thrives you need a touch of spontaneity. Plan trips, invite your loved one for a walk, or drive outside the city.
Communicate – Talk to your partner about everything. Tell him how you feel and what's on your mind. Communication is the basis of every relationship and only it can build your relationship, while its absence means the presence of doubts and mistrust.
Try to be positive - Stop doubting yourself and him. If you have decided or planned something, stick to it. Believe in yourself and your partner and good things will happen. A negative attitude can destroy the foundations and the strongest relationships.
Love yourself and be yourself - The old rule is "to be able to love others, you must first love yourself". You can't expect others to love you if you don't love yourself. Likewise, if you pretend to be someone else, that person will be loved, not you. It's important to always be yourself, no matter who you are.
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Things not to do in a new relationship:
Don't make assumptions and overthink - Try to think with a cool head and without assumptions. Even if something seems like a big problem, chances are it actually has a simple solution. Overthinking things in a relationship can only bring you stress and headaches.
Don't try to even things out - If your partner did something wrong, that doesn't mean you have to follow his example to even things out. Show that you are a bigger person than the one who is always ready to fight and take revenge. Treat your loved one the way you would like him to treat you.
Don't get intimate until You're 100% sure you want it - Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to be intimate with that person if you're not ready yet. You should never give in under pressure, for fear that the person in question will lose interest in you. If they can't wait until you're ready, they're not worth you.
Don't be possessive and try to control everything - Being in love has one downside: you can very easily become possessive because you want to be with that person 24/7. However, you must understand that doing so will destroy your relationship. He, like you, needs solo time, as well as time spent with family and friends. Don't try to control his every step and move, because that brings bad results.
Post by: Rinna James
