5 sentences you should NEVER say to a loved one!

Conversations are the basis of everything, no matter for which sphere of life, it is always important to keep it at a high level and try to clarify everything in time. This is the easiest way to avoid misunderstandings. As with everything, there are little tricks for communication that can teach us how to swim in a sea of ​​interpersonal relationships, which can often be unhealthy and bad.

However, there are some situations where there is not much room for philosophy, thinking, and hiding. To whom will we be honest, if not to our partner? Honesty is the core of any relationship, but sometimes we should not exaggerate and say everything without thinking. These are a few sentences that no partner would like to hear, saying them we will accomplish nothing but deepen the conflict and lead to, perhaps, greater consequences. They make your relationship bad, unhealthy and push your partner away from you:

1. No big deal, you'll get over it.

You will agree that none of us wants to hear this as a consolation. Our current problem is the biggest in the world and we need the support of our partners. If there is a lack of understanding and consolation, it will certainly make us think about where that relationship is leading and whether we are right for each other.
 

2. You are the same as your father/mother.

Mentioning the family, especially in a negative context, has never been good. Avoid such arguments in the discussion because no one likes to hear bad things about themselves and those they love. If you don't have anything positive to say, refrain and don't use family as a weapon in an argument. It will be much better if you talk calmly and ask for a change in behavior.

3. You always/You never.

Blaming and false accusations are the great enemies of any relationship. Certainly, none of us intentionally got into the problem and came to a dead-end, so the famous "attack is the best defense" definitely does not play a role in the emotional relationship.

4. I've had enough.

A sign of giving up. You are tired and tired of everything, but isn't it a little selfish to leave a loved one in bad stages of life and when he needs support? In every honest relationship, you have to find a source of energy that will push you further, that is, in fact, love. Don't say this phrase, especially if it's not what you really mean.

5. You are too sensitive.

If you notice that your partner has been upset or affected by something, you will not help him if you only notice his condition. None of us is in charge of determining how someone will feel and whether there are too many emotions in us. Even if you don't understand him, don't judge him.