Intimacy: These things turn man off!

These things turn them off, and most women make the same mistakes.

Jul 28, 2022 - 15:04
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Intimacy: These things turn man off!

It doesn't matter if you've just entered the waters of marriage or a relationship, or you've just met and felt such chemistry, which reached its peak in bed, there are some things that change men's minds and kill their desire for sex. A good sex life, in addition to love, respect, trust and communication, is an important part of a relationship and it is wrong not to attach importance to it. And if it already is, do your research and find out how to improve it and be equally satisfied.

British sex expert Tracy Cox asked 20 men of different ages and marital statuses what turns them off the most in women when it comes to intimate relationships. Numerous responses followed some of which you would never expect.

Here is a list of 10 things that kill men's desire for sex:

1. Pretending to like sex

The first and most important thing in any relationship is to be natural and not pretend to please someone. That's when you feel it, especially in tender moments. There are people whose libido is at a lower level and that's okay. Find things that please both of you and find a common compromise.

2. Exaggeration in enjoyment

No man likes when women excessively sigh or moan during sexual intercourse, even when there is no need for it. Hot sighs boost the male ego and ignite the passions but to a normal limit. Anything beyond that is an exaggeration and can be irritating. That way, you won't prove to your better half that you like him. Be spontaneous and natural, and they will definitely feel it.

3. They don't like to experiment

Research has shown that women who do not practice any other pose than the missionary pose provoke less desire and energy in their partner. It's okay to be in the pose that suits you best, but ask or suggest something different and you're sure to freshen up your relationship.

4. Women who lack confidence

Confident women attract men. If a woman is too shy even after a long-term relationship, it is obvious that she does not feel at ease with her partner. The conversation is the key to any relationship and from there solutions to all problems begin.

5. They don't know how to kiss

There are people who like to "drool" when they kiss or use their tongue too much and it can be very uncomfortable. Be gentle in those moments, give the man the opportunity to feel every touch, and then slowly surrender to the flow of the sexual act.

6. They show disgust

Bodily fluids are an integral part of all of us and satisfaction should be mutual. Words like  "ugh" when a few drops end up on your body can offend your partner. Take care.

7. They do not want or refuse oral satisfaction

Another thing that bothers the stronger sex is the refusal of oral pleasure. If your partner already satisfies you, it would be okay if you do the same for him. Of course, it should not be under the sign of having to, but you should feel it and enjoy it.

8. Talking about exes

Talking about ex-boyfriends, especially in intimate moments, can disturb a partner. Every feeling starts from thought. If you start praising your ex and what he was like in bed, it will definitely affect your current partner. There is also a possibility that you can imagine how you imagine your ex while making love.

9. Non-stop phone checking

Watching and reading messages or just checking social networks can disturb your partner in the moments when you are exchanging affections. In a way, it is also a sign of disrespect.

10. Beating

Keep in mind that men do not like sweet words and beatings when their libido is at its peak. Outside of bed, such a way of exchanging words can be cute, but during an intimate relationship, such speech is not at all seductive.


Post By: Vanessa F.