Reasons why men leave good women
If your partner broke up with you and you don’t understand why because everything was fine, these 3 reasons could explain it.
Sometimes you don’t think there will be a break even when you feel deep down that something is wrong. Sometimes the break comes out of nowhere. No matter how the breakup came, your partner probably had a secret reason for the breakup that prevented him from fully expressing his feelings. You may have thought that this would not happen to you because your partner is sensitive, open and you saw him crying.
Still, most men struggle with these problems that often confuse them. Understanding these issues can help you get over a bad breakup or potentially be in a relationship again. Here are three reasons why men leave really great women.
He felt pressured and inadequate
Did you want more love, affection, or sex than he offered? Or did you feel like you were often trying to fix things in your relationship? If you can identify with any of these situations, then there was definitely an imbalance in your relationship. That’s why he most likely felt the pressure and thought he wasn’t good enough for you. Regardless, it’s important to know that it’s not your fault.
Most men run away from emotional pressure. Emotional pressure is caused by an underdeveloped part of a man which makes him feel unprepared to deal with it. He feels in his mind that everything he does is not and will never be good enough for you. This causes men to naturally close and locks their hearts, instead of dealing more with feelings of pressure or inadequacy.
You compete in a relationship
He not only feels inadequate but also thinks that there is no place for his manhood in his wife’s life. This does not mean that a man should control the whole relationship. Instead, a successful relationship has complementary strengths where each person relinquishes control in certain areas. If that doesn’t happen, both sides compete to win and, in the end, the relationship suffers. This dynamic appears in scenarios like these: In a social context with friends. Are you two arguing about who was “right” in front of friends? Do you make more money than him? And more importantly, have you ever talked about it in a way that makes him feel bad? Did you make decisions all the time about it? Where to eat, what fun things to do, or what movies to watch?
He thinks you don't respect him
A man can't build a life with a woman who does not respect him. He must feel that his partner supports him and he must know that even in the weakest moment he will be overwhelmed with acceptance. It is in this that the truth of your worth is hidden, you are the key to its importance. In order to show everything he has in him, including his tenderness and willingness to dedicate himself, one needs to feel that you respect him because that is one of the foundations for a relationship for him. With a high-caliber woman by his side, he can take greater risks in life and actually experience more freedom than is possible when alone.
Now that you know the reasons why he left, how can you bring him back? It’s time to think and take urgent action to rectify the situation if you still truly love him. Once you know how to break through his defenses and touch the deepest part of his heart, he will feel an irresistible calmness and confidence that you truly understand him.
