Six ways to seduce him
For men, some female features are much more important than looks
Despite the fact that many connect attractiveness solely to appearance, this is simple and often wrong. Of course, looks are important and it's a lie to say otherwise, but it's certainly not decisive. Namely, some other qualities in women are much more important to men.
1. Develop as a person
It is important for men that a person is physically attractive to them, but only a beautiful exterior is not enough. They are looking for a self-sufficient and self-aware personality, someone who intrigues them - that she has her own interests (dance, art, travel, music, work, hobby, that she is passionate about something...) Why is that important? Because with a versatile person you have many topics to talk about. Every encounter with such a person is a challenge. He won't even notice, and he'll already fall in love with you!
2. Respect personal boundaries
A man needs freedom, so don't be the girl who is on the phone non-stop to see where he is, who wants to know his every step and who he is with... Show him that you trust him, and respect that he needs to see his friends, not just you.
3. Take an interest in his life
All people like to be listened to sincerely and to be interested in what they do, what they love, and what inspires them. By asking him about his life, desires, dreams, values, about the people who are important to him, you let him know that it is important to you and that you want to discover as much as possible about him. This shows him that you care about him. And he, without a doubt, will enjoy such attention.
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4. Don't compare him to exes
People don't like being compared to others, especially not to former loves. Therefore, if he tells you about what annoys him in other people, what bothers him, never say "my ex didn't like being asked..." or "my ex used to like so-and-so in bed". Nobody wants to hear that.
5. Be yourself
Don't pretend to be someone you're not - because sometimes the truth will come out. Behave naturally and spontaneously, the point of love and relationship is to be with someone who you really are and for that other person to love you with virtues and flaws.
6. Tell him what you like about him
Everyone likes compliments, both men and women. If you tell him that he's handsome, he'll definitely be pleased that you like his looks. Tell him how much he means to you, that you enjoy spending time together, that he is interesting, witty...
Post by: Rinna James
