The three of them are both lovers and friends - Nicole reveals what it looks like to be in a relationship with two women
Nicole LaPera, a clinical psychologist, described on her Instagram profile how she started a relationship with her two partners.
Coming out of the closet is a well-known term that mostly refers to LGBTQ + people when they decide to officially go out in front of the whole world and admit their sexual orientation. In a way, Nicole came out of the closet for the second time in her life, since she came out as gay when she was 19 years old. Now she posted a photo on Instagram and wrote that she was in a relationship with two women.
She has been in a relationship with her partner Lola for ten years, and since 4 months ago, officially, Jenna has been in a relationship with them as well. They have always talked about how everything is transparent in their relationship, and they do not hide anything, so they decided to publish it all on social networks. They say that they do not know about the public stories of such couples, so they were encouraged to make a whole podcast episode. Because of course, they have their own podcast, as do 90 percent of the world's population.
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Nicole said that she knows that this life decision of hers will not find much approval and that people will not understand her, but that she is absolutely fine with that, and that she is just asking people to listen to her with an open heart and an open mind.
"We have been officially together for the last four months and that has expanded me spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. It’s still a little scary, but we’re filled with joy. There are a lot of tears, but there is also a lot of laughter. I am learning about myself and what it means to be in an authentic relationship" LaPera wrote on her Instagram.
The notion of a third person in a relationship has always meant a problem and a certain end of it. Whether the new age brings us a new meaning of this term, and whether such relationships will replace the more traditional ones, only time will show.
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By: Sarah R.
