Why are men attracted to older women?

What is it about older women that younger men find attractive?

Jul 27, 2022 - 08:04
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Why are men attracted to older women?

Regardless of who participates in them, partnerships are always complicated. There are two people who need to be honest with each other, open, and actually want to spend time together. And then there is the environment, which is always watching and commenting, especially if it sees something that is "unusual" or "abnormal".

Aside from same-sex relationships, which in themselves cause very violent reactions, when it comes to male-female relationships, the astonishment comes when the relationship between a younger man and an older woman is noticed. So what is it about older women that younger men find attractive?


This applies to all spheres, but primarily to sex. Older women have more experience in sex, they know what they want and they are not ashamed to let their partner know it. Likewise, they certainly know more "moves" that can impress men, and younger men can hardly resist such an attitude. It does not mean that they all have the same attitude towards sex, but a woman who knows what she wants and what she does will hardly take no for an answer.

Less drama

Not everyone will agree with this controversial point, but the fact is that younger men believe that there will be more drama in relationships with a younger woman compared to an older one. Of course, everything is a matter of individual attitude and each individual relationship, but the expectations are that this second relationship will flow more easily, both physically and mentally. 

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Financial security

Just as money is often mentioned in a relationship between a younger woman and an older man, it also plays a role in a relationship between a younger man and an older woman. Granted, it could be for the pure reason of stability and less pressure, but it could also be because men prefer to brag. And an older woman with whom they have a relationship, who is financially stable and at the same time more experienced in sex, sounds like a "jackpot" to many.

Less expectations

Older women will not pressure a younger man to get married, have children, change jobs, or at least not as much as younger women. They have another focus in life and the fact that they have found someone who keeps them company and with whom they feel younger can be enough for satisfaction. However, this does not mean that they will not have any expectations from their partner or that there cannot be a lot of problems and awkward situations, because one thing is a relationship in theory, and another in practice.

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