Are selfish women happier in love?
Those women who think only of themselves and their needs fare much better than those who try to please everyone.
Selfishness, believe it or not, pays off, and to make things even weirder, it pays off when it comes to love. Those women who do not like to please others have proven to feel a higher level of satisfaction, compared to women who try to please everyone, least of all themselves.
Regardless of the fact that our parents taught us that we should always share and give, as it turns out, sometimes it is better to think more of ourselves than of others. Namely, women who give themselves completely and stand up for the people around them fare much worse compared to women who only think of their own needs.
Recently, a study was conducted at the University of Arizona and it showed that women who, despite their stress, come to men's aid, in that way harm themselves, as well as their relationship. In such situations, there is usually an accumulation of stress, which later causes more and more frequent disagreements, as well as arguments with the partner.
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A large number of married and unmarried couples participated in the research, and the length of the relationship ranged from six months to 44 years. During the research, the couples recorded the activities that they spent together, hanging out with friends, and various other obligations.
It turns out that women who are selfish function better in a relationship and therefore the relationship is of better quality. Whether it's true selfishness or a selfless woman finally realizing where her boundaries are and what she should or shouldn't agree to, selfishness comes in handy. You will enjoy the relationship, and men will have more nerves for you and respect you more.
If you still decide on a selfless concept, be aware that such women are characterized as unhappy, dissatisfied, and with a heavy burden on their backs. Try to share responsibilities with your partner, and if you see that it is not working, decide to protect yourself first, and then others.
Post by: Rinna James
