Why do you choose the wrong men?
There are many reasons that can lead you to make wrong choices in love.
Everywhere you turn, don't you seem to be a magnet for the wrong guys? You may have noticed that you jump from relationship to relationship with guys who leave you heartbroken, and deeply disappointed in love. No doubt you have asked yourself, why does this always happen to you? Why do you choose the wrong men?
There are many reasons that can lead you to make wrong choices in love. No, it's not about the stars, nor your (bad) zodiac sign. Behind your wrong decisions are some deeper things. Find out what it's about and save yourself another failed relationship.
YOU SUFFER FROM THE SO-CALLED - PROLONGED REBELLIOUS ADOLESCENCE
When you were a teenager, you made some irrational and rash decisions. This is completely understandable and somewhat acceptable. However, this behavior doesn't stop as if someone waved a magic wand over you when you turn 18. Some of us don't allow our rebellious nature to go away and give way to reasonable behavior. Maybe a light bulb turns on in you when you meet the wrong guy, but your desire to rebel doesn't let you miss anything.
FAMILY PROBLEMS
The family has a great influence on each of us. The relationship between you and your parents, as well as between them, is the one that leaves a mark on all your future relationships. Maybe you grew up in a dysfunctional family. Maybe you are a child of divorced parents or you grew up with only one parent. Perhaps you watched your mother choose the wrong men and continued this “trend”. By choosing the wrong men, you are continuing the family tradition, because you really don't know any better.
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YOU HAVE VERY LOW SELF-CONFIDENCE
Many girls today, with everything within their reach to be happy with themselves, suffer from very low self-esteem. Although the truth is far from that, they allow themselves to think that they are not beautiful enough, smart enough, desirable, and similar. Therefore, they tend to fall in love with the first man who pays attention to them, regardless of the qualities he possesses. To make matters worse, they will also think he is too good for them. Remember: no one in the world can sabotage you more than yourself.
WISH FOR CONFIRMATION
Each of us wants to feel wanted, and the best way to make that happen is to get into a romantic relationship with someone. If you're someone who doubts yourself and your worth, the need for validation will take over every time you meet a new guy, no matter how everything inside of you is screaming that he's wrong. The tendency to find yourself through how others see you will lead you to attract guys who will flatter you, but who will never truly love you.
Post by: Rinna James
